GRIEF BILL OF RIGHTS

David Bannon
1 min readSep 13, 2023

My grief matters.

My grief is an act of memory and love.

My grief, like my love, has no time limit.

My grief is the natural and appropriate reaction to loss.

My grief is healthy.

My grief is normal.

My grief is not a process to work through, a disorder to heal, a condition to treat, or an illness to cure.

My grief has only one stage — grief.

My grief is my own.

I grieve at my own pace.

I grieve in my own way.

I may speak my grief or remain silent.

I am not crazy.

I am not alone.

How my loved one died is not as important as who that person is to me.

My loved one matters.

The author grants permission to distribute this image in grief groups and similar support venues, with the proviso that the author’s copyright notice be included: “Reprinted with permission of the author. © 2023 David Bannon.”

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David Bannon
David Bannon

Written by David Bannon

Author and translator David Bannon has appeared on Discovery, A&E, History Channel, NPR, Fox News and in The Wall Street Journal. His daughter died in 2015.

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